How can you tell the difference between a friend and a sister/friend (not sister wife)?
- You share knowing looks
- You share private jokes and mischievous plans
- You have seen one another in your skivvies
- You text one another almost exclusively in emojis and have designated ringtones
- You have cried together…. often… sometimes laugh cries, sometimes ugly cries
- You have laughed until you almost (or did) pee your pants
- You talk about bra sizes and loving pillows (yes that was a private joke..)
- When something happens, whether good, bad, or ugly you think to text them immediately
- You are always planning what you will do together next (water aerobics anyone??)
- You do life together…. REAL life together. You LOVE one another wholly and delight in the imperfections
Friendship is a huge part of the surviving depression equation. Please allow others into your journey. You won’t regret it. Vulnerability is beautiful. Friendship is beautiful.